If we really care about changing our life, we must give an intensive care to our attitude toward ourselves, things and toward other people. As the Spanish philosopher Ortega once said; ‘we human beings are born with a sense of disorientation’, that means we have the ability to change and mold our life in the order that we desire.’ Our ideas shape our tomorrow, if they are well chosen and positive, they will change our attitude toward all that we get in contact, and we will alter our present and future life.
Success is not luck or fate as some people think, success is a matter of applying some rules and attitude is on top of the list. People who are always successful are successful because of their good attitude and their belief in their success, they do not take adversity or failure as something permanent, they simply think of failure as the way to success.
The simple guarantee is a healthy attitude.
Our attitude tells the world what we expect, we can In-tune our attitude every morning while we’re still at home, when we are preparing to go out to the world, to meet other people, people reflect our attitude. It is a matter of cause and effect, if we are cheerful, others reflect it, if we are gloomy, others reflect that too. We are responsible of our life, we get back what we put off, our surroundings reflect us, they are a mirror of ourselves, great attitude=great results, bad attitude=bad results. If we develop the habit of being in a state of good attitude as much as we can during the day, we will find ourselves transmuted from the deep darkness to the sunlight. We will find ourselves solving our problems easily, and benefiting from every moment of the day. If we take a good attitude with a feeling of gratitude for all that we already have and expect the best from life, life will give us what we expect. Unfortunately some people react to the circumstances, if they are good they feel good, and if the circumstances are gloomy, they become gloomy, they change their attitude according to the outer world, they conform, they change according to the changes in the circumstances, they do not try to create their own circumstances, they follow other people, when people meet them with adversities and criticism or they confront a problem, they take a defensive negative attitude which masks their sight and never try to take a positive objective attitude which will help them to see more clearly and solve or turn around the problem, they spend their life in misery and fail to shift their attitude and ultimately change their lives. They wait for people to react towards them instead of letting other people know what they expect from them by letting them know what they really want from their heart, from their interior core, not the outer world, they just wait for the wind to turn, or the tide to change and just conform and let others think and decide for them, and as a result of that, and since it is not their decision, it is not what they want in their deep self, they take a defensive bad attitude toward everything and ruin their future, their dreams and their entire life.
What does good attitude have to do with success?
People with good attitude do successful outstanding jobs, they expect the good from everything and find the good even in adversities, and they know that achievement is a natural order because they fix a goal and work with persistence until they achieve it no matter what it takes. Unsuccessful people think that those people are lucky; they say that successful people are born under a lucky star; they don’t know that luck is when preparedness, persistence and expectancy meet success.
My friend go after your goals, expect to fulfill them and have a good attitude, don’t expect the world to change, when we change, people change, practice good attitude, we interact with people through our attitude, life is dull only for dull people, life is successful for successful people. As the German philosopher Goethe once said;’ before you can do something you must be something’. And in order to get the help necessary from other people to accomplish your goals, treat every person as the most important on earth, make people feel that they are important. Carry out your good attitude to the world every day, don’t let people and circumstances change your attitude, forgive who ever hurts you or treats you improperly and forget it, get rid of it, the bad attitude of others is infectious, we don’t have time for such weeny things, stay far as much as possible from negative people. Finally a great attitude connects us to beautiful things and our life will get better and better as we go on, let us work on becoming part of the top 5% successful people in the world, we have been given a beautiful world, let us use properly the gifts we received at birth to contribute in the advancement of this world, no matter how big or small our contribution is, we do our best in all what we do for our benefit and the benefit of everyone.